23 August 2026 Expression of the Week

I should get going.

"I should get going" is a polite way of saying: "It's time for me to leave."

or

"I need to go now."

If I was at dinner with friends and I stood up and said, “Goodbye” or “See you later”, my friends would think this very strange, even rude. Instead, English speakers often use a pre-closing statement. This gives the other person a chance to respond .

For example:

  • A: "Well, I should get going."

  • B: "Okay, it was nice seeing you."

  • A: "You too. See you later."

  • B: "See you."

So think of "I should get going" as a signal that you are starting to say goodbye, rather than the actual goodbye.

Examples

At a friend's house

  • A: "Would you like another cup of coffee?"

  • B: "No thanks. I should get going."

At a party

  • A: "I've had a great time, but I should get going."

  • B: "Thanks for coming."

Similar expressions

You will also hear:

  • I need to get going.

  • I'd better get going.

  • I'd better head off.

  • I'd better be on my way.

  • I should head off.

  • I have to run. (informal)

These expressions are commonly used when you are preparing to leave.

Important Notes

  1. It sounds polite and indirect.

    English speakers often prefer indirect language when ending conversations.

  2. It is often followed by a goodbye expression.

    For example:

    • "I should get going. See you tomorrow."

    • "I should get going. Thanks for having me."

Learner's Tips

When someone says "I should get going," the conversation may continue for another minute or two. That's normal!

Think of it as:

"I need to leave soon, so let's start saying goodbye."

not:

"I'm leaving right now."

Try to say your sentences out loud, not just in your head. If you get the opportunity, use the expression in a real conversation this week.

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